Relationship with your partner not what it used to be?
Frustrated about how you're treated?
Feeling run down and afraid you are out of options?
Perhaps you feel more like you are just co-habitating rather than in an intimate relationship. You may think your relationship is doomed.
And, unfortunately, as conflict worsens, people tend to reinforce their own negative beliefs and sabotaging behaviors.
If you bail now, you are likely to end up repeating the same in the next relationship.
It doesn't have to be this way. Happy, long-lasting, fulfilling partnerships and marriages are possible even if you've had a few relationships that ended badly.
By understanding your own beliefs and actions that contribute to your fulfillment and/or dissatisfaction, you will empower yourself to obtain the relationship you want.
I work with all types of couples who struggle with feeling misunderstood, lonely, and frustrated about issues such as trust, repeated conflict, and communication breakdown. Whether you want pre-marital counseling, feel yourself drifting, or are considering divorce, I provide neutral, yet intentional guidance to help you.
People often come to couples counseling with lots of fear and anger. It is difficult at that time to see how it can get better or what relationship patterns you are following.
But to save and improve a relationship it is crucial that you recognize the patterns and dynamics that make you and your partner unhappy.
We will work step by step to improve communication, respect, and personal responsibility so you may experience a rewarding, close relationship.
As your therapist, I cannot pressure your partner into participating. However, I can help by offering objective, direct, and respectful guidance for your relationship with strategies that have been proven to work.
Contact me if you are ready to experience change in any of the following ways:
Magnify your ability to give and receive love
Improve trust, communication and respect in your relationships
Be more self-confident
Be excited and self-motivated
Feel clarity in your decisions
Find more direction and focus
Increase your ability to manage problems
Develop new pathways to achieve your goals
Many people experience some level of anxiety or resistance prior to working with a therapist. I want you to know that I don't take sides and you won't be judged.
My role as a couple's counselor is to help you hear each other clearly, consider each other's perspectives, opinions and feelings fully, and learn how to work together to get your individual needs met.
I invite you to come for an initial assessment
and trust yourself to know if
this is the right place for you.
309 - 346 - 5378
Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
~ William James